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Cyril Ip

I feel for young Hongkongers who say they are ‘from the UK’

Instead of mocking those who adopt a superficial Western identity, we might pause and ask: what pressure made them feel this was necessary?

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Cyril Ip is a creative strategist and journalist whose work spans media, music and publicity.
If you were an active dater in Hong Kong, particularly during the politically turbulent late 2010s, you would have grown accustomed to seeing a certain phrase on local profiles: “from the UK”. But gentle probing would reveal that this succinct declaration, often adorned with a Union flag emoji, conveyed more aspiration than lived familiarity.

In most cases, the purported home in Britain was a dormitory, legitimised only by a student visa; the family remained firmly in Hong Kong. Ask the wrong question – about neighbourhoods, seasons or childhood – and it would become clear that some were largely familiar with the United Kingdom as a campus.

Profiles on dating apps, with their careful curation and strategic self-presentation, function as a microcosm of contemporary sociopolitics. For some, claiming to be “from the UK” could have been less about geography than how they wished to be seen – what identities felt safer, worthier or more legible in a world structured by subtle yet persistent hierarchies.

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